By: Ayu Lestari Kurnia *
What should we do to show a receipt? Simple. Smile. Getting attention at once spread a smile can be implied from you. A smile is a very light work. Sincere smile, addressed to someone else suggests many things. With a smile, might be able to answer our opponents, "I accept you as is, without conditions."
When we smile at someone, he will feel valued, important and valuable. He'll feel more comfortable with themselves. And only needed a smile to all of them, a smile as an expression of genuine warmth.
Smiles are ageless medicine because of the smile muscles move the face, so the facial muscles trained and strong. A smile can relax the tension in the facial nerve so the risk can be reduced appearance of wrinkles. Without wrinkles, of course, our face look more youthful.
We smiled our bodies give positive signals of life, so our bodies accept it as a gift, thus increasing the body immunity. A smile with a useful exercise, facial muscles involved moving. The muscle that makes us feel more relaxed fit.
Among one reason heart disease is stress. Stress will trigger an endothelium-layer damage the heart-that can enhance the creation of cholesterol in the blood vessels. Remarkably, a smile can eliminate stress. A smile can make the heart is not beating too fast. We can imagine the impact of such a state. Smiling can make you more relaxed so that the work of the heart was normal and the risk of hypertension can be reduced.
There again, smiles and laughter can reduce efinefrin hormone and cortisol production. This hormone has the effect of slowing the healing process. In addition, a smile also makes the body produce the hormone endorphin and serotonin, which is a hormone controlling pain. Therefore, a smile can reduce pain and speed the healing process.
Smiles, business and charity
China proverb says, "Someone who does not have a smile should not open shop." Salesmen, businessmen, anyone whose life depends on the customer or the support of others must learn how to practice the acceptance of their relationship.
Will smile even more beautiful when clean white teeth seemed to decorate the lips. Try to imagine when your teeth hurt, can you stay with a beautiful smile? Do-not to speak it you're lazy.
There is a reciprocity that occurs, that if we make others feel comfortable with a smile and greeted him with a positive, they also will want to reciprocate with similar treatment gives us.
Willy Loman, in Death of a Salesman, said, "The most important thing is to be preferred." When other people like us, they'd better have the willingness to cooperate with us. To be a preferred starting point is the love of others.
And the way to reveal that we love people is to give him a warm smile heartily when he met him.
Likewise, in Islam. A sincere smile, an alms. That's the value of a smile in Islam. Prophet Muhammad is the person who always cast a smile. The smile he made the Muslims more and loved him. His smile makes the infidel Quraysh increasingly awkward for him.
Rasulullah SAW said in a hadeeth narrated by al-Tirmidhi, Ibn Hibban, and Al-Bayhaqi, "FII Tabassumuka Wajhi Akhiika shodaqoh." Meaning, "Smile when you are met by relatives, including worship."
Teach kindness to others will be more readily accepted if we have always offered a smile to that person. A Muslim is obliged to call people invite others into the path of good. So awalilah approach with others through smiles.
In another hadith narrated by Ad-Dailamy, Rasulullah SAW said: "Verily the doors of goodness is a lot of: beads, tahmid, Takbir, the Prophet (dhikr), amar ma'ruf nahyi munkar, remove the barriers (thorns, stone) from the road, helping people, to smile to you too is charity. "
Saheeh, give us that good can we do with a simple way, alms that we do not always have to give a number of materials if we did not have anything. Because make expressive movements with interesting angles to the top lip is already a silent charity.
So much wisdom behind the smile. Very convenient if Muslims interpret the smile as a charity. A smile adds a healthy body and strengthen the good relations with friends. A smile is an effective preaching tool and certainly worth a reward.
So you always feel comfortable and become more healthy, then perbanyaklah smile. In order for your smile dole fruit value, then the intention because the sincere hope luruskanlah blessing from Allah SWT. And so you get the beautiful smile, then save all your dental health. Of course, not a smile in any place. Unless you have an unhealthy sense anymore.
*) The author is a doctor and a housewife (Hidayatullah.com)
